Obsession
a man would rather forcibly change a woman’s life than ask her out and get rejected
and even when he DID realize what he had done he didn’t even ask for the spell to be CANCELED he just wanted it to be ALTERED. he didn’t try to STOP ANYTHING until nikki was hurting others and himself BROOO
also the fact that bear continued to use nikki for her body and company after knowing she is under a spell is SICKKKK