Punch-Drunk Love

This movie was all over the place in the best way. The randomness and the variety of visuals perfectly captures the way Barry feels. He wants to be known and loved but at the same time he wants to be safe. I think many people can resonate with Barry and that’s why this movie is so beloved. Barry is a closed off person that wants to be as safe as possible. This is shown by the way that he makes up all these excuses and hides in the shadows in many shots. But Barry also wants to be loved. Many people feel like this, they want to be alone because that is what makes them feel safe but they want to feel love because that makes them feel alive. I just love the scene where we see him walking in and out of the house party. It really encapsulates Barry as a character as being nervous but longing for acceptance. Him finally going into the party and opting to be loved is just like his relationship with Lena. I wish I could love someone or someone would love me. I just don’t think many people love people like Barry. One day I’ll find my Lena.