The Loved One

ana sila opposites attract pero in dis movie n based sa akng experiences d jd. huna hunaa d mo same on how u view the world, d mo same ug political views, etc. and d na unta i pugos ang fate nga kamo na jd kay ka waste anag time bruh 10 yrs dafuq. f u feel like na pugos ra inyong rs but ure still fighting for it for a hundred times, n u saw his red flags leave immediately kay f hes really into u, he would never do that shits, he couldve talked it out. also medj lisod jd i work f naay older sa inyong rs jd kay ure busy having fun (ex. ure still in college, n ur partner is working na, u would feel guilty jd) also if ure in ur early 20’s and ur partner is pushing thru 30’s theres a big possibility jd to outgrew that person jd. diff pd silag social stat beginning sa movie, so they do have lots of diffs jd si Ellie kay she has freedom to do everything that she wants and she values individuality in a rs (modern dating), while, Eric hes the breadwinner, overwork wa nay bbtym just like us(gnhn pd syag kasal so hes really into trad rs). its just they have diff ways into loving sumone i think. ang ako lang d unta mo pursue si eric is hes not ready to accept the lifestyle of ellie, shes free spirited, then makipag argue syang ellie just because she wanted to pursue what she wants. realizations: we dont deserve a love that drains us and mag stole sa atng peace. we should be with the person nga they would be happy to see us grow, to know us deeply. fck eric for questioning ellie if she really wanted the baby, the mfer even have the guts to walk away, he didnt even comfort her.