Blue Valentine

Well, when I started watching this movie I didn't expect that thanks to it I would be able to understand myself. Two months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, even though he didn't do anything wrong to me, and I can honestly say with my hand on my heart that I wish every woman had a boyfriend like him. I've been wondering for a long time that if he was so good to me and treated me well, why did I break up with him? Why did my feelings disappear so suddenly? I started to see my ex as Dean - a simple, sensitive guy who was sincerely in love but without ambitions. We are both young and immature, but full of emotions. Our relationship was born out of desperation and a need for closeness. Over time, our differences grew, I wanted something more from life, I have my own aspirations, but he wanted to be "only together". After some time and after watching this movie I realized that we were simply incompatible and that is why I decided to end the relationship and he wanted to find a solution, even though my emotions was already gone. I understood that not every relationship formed in youth has a happy ending and does not always have to be "forever"