DTF St. Louis

it’s not about “who did it,” it was about why no one saw it.  men’s mental health should never be overlooked. if there are signs, don’t ignore them. you can help as much as you can—sometimes even a kind advisement/referral to professional help, whether that be a therapist/psychiatrist or even the potential of inpatient care—help is always necessary and should never be looked at as a burden, even if it can’t fully change the outcome on its own.  i had this theme (and the suicide) pinned down by episodes three/four. all of these red herrings and blame-shifting really do represent how easy it is to have a blind spot to mental health, especially within men. this is extremely relevant and important in today’s society.  seeking help is NOT a sign of weakness. masking emotional vulnerability through anger, isolation, or even substance abuse ARE signs that help may be needed. do not be afraid to go against the male stigma of deeply ingrained social norms that promote stoicism. lacking the correct assistance can contribute to outcomes like what happened in this show, while also wrecking relationships, negating proper functionality in social/professional settings, and altogether causing a downward spiral that can become unrecognizable until the worst possible thing happens.