Joyland
Am I still invisible to you?
Patriarchy, as evil as it is to the opposite gender, sometimes picks its victims from its own bearers. Haider is one such victim whose masculinity is repeatedly questioned at multiple instances, & when the question starts recurring often, it turns into a statement & that statement has the ability to set-aside your conscience & decide your reality.(It's basically how a cult works ig)
Mumtaz was not just asking that question to her emotionally unavailable husband but also to Haider who's constantly trying to meet the expectations of the same people because of whom he ended the way he is, while ignoring the support that he has been getting from the person who actually once mattered to him.