Phantom Thread
you COULD go to couple’s therapy and say “hey, we need a signal for when he’s too deep into work mode and we need to intentionally connect” OR you could nod at each other and get the poison mushrooms out, baby.
i think a lot about the line in sarah ruhl’s Eurydice that goes something like “this is what it is to be with an artist, he is always going away from you” — romantic spontaneity is a planned negotiation, work is creeping around every corner, the boundaries between work and play melt away if not carefully tended to.
tl;dr: it really do be like that, vicky krieps supremacy