(writing this as I am watching) This is such an infuriating watch, the way the government or the people who we are supposed to trust saying “what is done is done” are u kidding me? a kid, A KID WHO WEARS RIBBONS ON HER HAIR and your here saying that your not even going to try or advice the family to try. 13, are you serious.
“Why were you alone with three boys anyways, there is blame to that as well” HOW SHALLOW ARE YOU? What could that possibly even mean?! The girl was LITERALLY related to one of them as well. Do I even need to explain my thoughts on how stupid that is? It’s the general way of thinking, why would I suspect the people around me would morally do me wrong? Again HOW IS THIS HER FAULT? SHE SAID SHE WAS BEING HELD AGAINST HER WILL AND THAT SHE TRIED TO LEAVE. Even so, STILL A DUMB WAY IF THINKING, it’s the same as saying “don’t wear shorts around your dad” literally what the fuck?. Also the whole “marry your rapist” be so real rn, why would anyone in their minds be with the person who caused harm towards them? Especially the people saying this are the same people who shunned the whole family as if they are some disease. I will never understand how people could even have these thoughts and think they are right. I know not everything is not just black and white but right now in this case, in that sentence and in that situation, in what way are you doing more then harm?
“You can never forget the fact that you are a girl” Yeah i’m a girl when i’m with my sister, when i’m with my brother, when i’m with my friends, when i’m with my parents, when i’m on the bus. That doesn’t mean i’m a liar, that i’m a good or bad person, doesn’t mean shit. Why is this responsibility being placed on the 13 year old, in what case should a 13 year old know anything but sunshine and rainbows? It’s the way of thinking that affects everyone so dangerously. When should I start seeing every male in my life as a dangerous person? Should I forever no longer trust them? because right now I am a 16 year old girl. Should I just stop going to school? Should I hide myself from my family and society? Anything can happen anywhere. It’s not her fault for not expecting what was to happen next.
Just got to the point of the ward member being with the three accused parents. I genuinely am losing faith in this, how are they sitting as a community with the parents of the three accused boys but when it comes to the girl they don’t speak with her to the point she doesn’t leave her house anymore, and the family, the scene from before where all the women were sitting and saying how what’s next in her life is now marriage. Back to the male group, sitting there saying how the girl is young and doesn’t know what she wants and doesn’t want. As if she isn’t a student and again A CHILD. What are they not getting? The double standards is RIGHT THERE. EVERYTHING THEY SAY JUST GOES AGAINST EVERYTHING. “They are young and made a mistake” Then grow up and own up to it. I hope karma is real and what goes around comes around, and I really really hope this comes to bite those three boys in the ass. Okay I unpaused and turns out I wasn’t even at the worst part yet. “If the girl wasn’t there then this would have never happened” then continue to explain how it’s also a girls fault because of the way they talk, walk, dress and makeup. Do I even need to explain how wrong this is? Why would a CHILD. no more, just that, why would a child. How fucking stupid and shallow do you have to be?
“A boy will be naughty only when a girl encourages him” again she’s a child.
Netflix was counting down my time so uh whatever time 50:58 was left, that entire scene of the two workers with the government dude. I laughed, glad the workers know their stuff cause they silenced that man and his irrelevance so fast.
They were really testing the patience of the dad when him and the ward guy was eating. Ward guy was yapping some shit as if the victims father isn’t right next to him.
At the end the ward said “What’s done is done” ah, hearing that knowing the family and the daughter got justice makes me happy. All those people who shunned them and deducted their importance less than the three rapists, what’s done is done and justice was done😼
(writing this as I am watching) This is such an infuriating watch, the way the government or the people who we are supposed to trust saying “what is done is done” are u kidding me? a kid, A KID WHO WEARS RIBBONS ON HER HAIR and your here saying that your not even going to try or advice the family to try. 13, are you serious.
“Why were you alone with three boys anyways, there is blame to that as well” HOW SHALLOW ARE YOU? What could that possibly even mean?! The girl was LITERALLY related to one of them as well. Do I even need to explain my thoughts on how stupid that is? It’s the general way of thinking, why would I suspect the people around me would morally do me wrong? Again HOW IS THIS HER FAULT? SHE SAID SHE WAS BEING HELD AGAINST HER WILL AND THAT SHE TRIED TO LEAVE. Even so, STILL A DUMB WAY IF THINKING, it’s the same as saying “don’t wear shorts around your dad” literally what the fuck?. Also the whole “marry your rapist” be so real rn, why would anyone in their minds be with the person who caused harm towards them? Especially the people saying this are the same people who shunned the whole family as if they are some disease. I will never understand how people could even have these thoughts and think they are right. I know not everything is not just black and white but right now in this case, in that sentence and in that situation, in what way are you doing more then harm?
“You can never forget the fact that you are a girl” Yeah i’m a girl when i’m with my sister, when i’m with my brother, when i’m with my friends, when i’m with my parents, when i’m on the bus. That doesn’t mean i’m a liar, that i’m a good or bad person, doesn’t mean shit. Why is this responsibility being placed on the 13 year old, in what case should a 13 year old know anything but sunshine and rainbows? It’s the way of thinking that affects everyone so dangerously. When should I start seeing every male in my life as a dangerous person? Should I forever no longer trust them? because right now I am a 16 year old girl. Should I just stop going to school? Should I hide myself from my family and society? Anything can happen anywhere. It’s not her fault for not expecting what was to happen next.
Just got to the point of the ward member being with the three accused parents. I genuinely am losing faith in this, how are they sitting as a community with the parents of the three accused boys but when it comes to the girl they don’t speak with her to the point she doesn’t leave her house anymore, and the family, the scene from before where all the women were sitting and saying how what’s next in her life is now marriage. Back to the male group, sitting there saying how the girl is young and doesn’t know what she wants and doesn’t want. As if she isn’t a student and again A CHILD. What are they not getting? The double standards is RIGHT THERE. EVERYTHING THEY SAY JUST GOES AGAINST EVERYTHING. “They are young and made a mistake” Then grow up and own up to it. I hope karma is real and what goes around comes around, and I really really hope this comes to bite those three boys in the ass. Okay I unpaused and turns out I wasn’t even at the worst part yet. “If the girl wasn’t there then this would have never happened” then continue to explain how it’s also a girls fault because of the way they talk, walk, dress and makeup. Do I even need to explain how wrong this is? Why would a CHILD. no more, just that, why would a child. How fucking stupid and shallow do you have to be?
“A boy will be naughty only when a girl encourages him” again she’s a child.
Netflix was counting down my time so uh whatever time 50:58 was left, that entire scene of the two workers with the government dude. I laughed, glad the workers know their stuff cause they silenced that man and his irrelevance so fast.
They were really testing the patience of the dad when him and the ward guy was eating. Ward guy was yapping some shit as if the victims father isn’t right next to him.
At the end the ward said “What’s done is done” ah, hearing that knowing the family and the daughter got justice makes me happy. All those people who shunned them and deducted their importance less than the three rapists, what’s done is done and justice was done😼