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2025·Drama·1h 42m
7.1
When a young missionary uncovers his late father's long-held secret, he travels from the Philippines to Spain in search of his dad's forbidden love.
Directed by Shaira Advincula
lgbt
gay theme

Cast

Juan Karlos Labajo
Juan Karlos Labajo
Seph
JC Santos
JC Santos
Young Otep
RK Bagatsing
RK Bagatsing
Marlon
Rosanna Roces
Rosanna Roces
Cecil
Nonie Buencamino
Nonie Buencamino
Pastor Leo
Lotlot De Leon
Lotlot De Leon
Present Joy
Bodjie Pascua
Bodjie Pascua
Present Otep
Xyriel Manabat
Xyriel Manabat
Michelle
Yesh Anne Burce
Yesh Anne Burce
Young Cecil
Pau Benitez
Pau Benitez
Helen
Gigi Hernandez
Gigi Hernandez
Otep’s Mother
Nor Domingo
Nor Domingo
Otep’s Father

Crew

Benjamin Gonzales Tolentino
Benjamin Gonzales Tolentino
Editor
Antoinette Jadaone
Antoinette Jadaone
Producer
Dan Villegas
Dan Villegas
Producer
Teresa Barrozo
Teresa Barrozo
Music

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leu
leu
I Wish You Had Told Me
ang mlugkot lg ay gnto ung typngs ni jk,,,,,
ang mlugkot lg ay gnto ung typngs ni jk,,,,,
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M
M
I Wish You Had Told Me
"I'll wait for you"

my brain immediately went to hadestown
"I'll wait for you"

my brain immediately went to hadestown
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jm
jm
I Wish You Had Told Me
olive trees... i hope you meet each other under your beloved olive trees..
olive trees... i hope you meet each other under your beloved olive trees..
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Elle
Elle
I Wish You Had Told Me
*Uno Corinto Trese Kwatro Siyete
*
The concept of the life you had searching and meeting the life you could’ve lived seems so poetic and gut-wrenchingly tragic. 

That montage while Otep’s voice narrates his letter using Medinilla Magnifica as the metaphor for how his love grows for Rum was my favorite part of this movie. 

+The way Rum cared for and nurtured the seeds that his love gave to him—he didn’t just plant them, he let them blossom and invade the space that he breathed, he let them take up space and unabashedly grow free to bask under the sun—unlike the love that they had: hidden beneath the shadows, shielded under inked metaphors and innuendos, both too afraid by society to beat their love to bruises and shred their love that lives only in those damned letters. 

Watching this while knowing that this movie is the writer/director’s love-letter to her dead father, and created this alternate universe where her father got the ending that he deserved—a world where her love for him is immortalized through this film. 

“In a world where people choose the gender of who should be the recipient of your love”

Came across this movie while watching a feel-good podcast; I honestly didn’t expect that this short clip from the movie writer and director that interrupted my podcast will pique my interest as much as it did. (AWKP, The Angelica Panganiban Interview)
*Uno Corinto Trese Kwatro Siyete
*
The concept of the life you had searching and meeting the life you could’ve lived seems so poetic and gut-wrenchingly tragic. 

That montage while Otep’s voice narrates his letter using Medinilla Magnifica as the metaphor for how his love grows for Rum was my favorite part of this movie. 

+The way Rum cared for and nurtured the seeds that his love gave to him—he didn’t just plant them, he let them blossom and invade the space that he breathed, he let them take up space and unabashedly grow free to bask under the sun—unlike the love that they had: hidden beneath the shadows, shielded under inked metaphors and innuendos, both too afraid by society to beat their love to bruises and shred their love that lives only in those damned letters. 

Watching this while knowing that this movie is the writer/director’s love-letter to her dead father, and created this alternate universe where her father got the ending that he deserved—a world where her love for him is immortalized through this film. 

“In a world where people choose the gender of who should be the recipient of your love”

Came across this movie while watching a feel-good podcast; I honestly didn’t expect that this short clip from the movie writer and director that interrupted my podcast will pique my interest as much as it did. (AWKP, The Angelica Panganiban Interview)
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ash
ash
I Wish You Had Told Me
what’s an anik-anik girlie without her religiously conflicted twink
what’s an anik-anik girlie without her religiously conflicted twink
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